Kenneth Oakley, age 61, of Hackettstown, NJ formerly of Livingston, NJ passed away peacefully after a long illness while in the loving care of his wife and children Thursday, March 27, 2014. Kenneth was born May 19, 1952 in East Orange, NJ. He is the son of the late Robert and Eleanor (Ehinger) Oakley. He was married to Cathleen "Cate" (Sullivan) Oakley.
He worked for the US Postal Service, Kenvil, NJ as a Postal Clerk retiring in 2007. Ken spent most of his postal career in the Hackettstown Post Office, Hackettstown, NJ. He was an avid baker and enjoyed woodworking, classic cars and spending time at the shore.
He is survived by his wife, Cathleen "Cate" (Sullivan) Oakley. Three children, sons Ryan and Kevin Oakley and his daughter Caitlin Oakley. One brother, Wayne Oakley. Sister-in-law; Beth Friedberg and her husband Bill. Brother in law Matthew Sullivan. Nieces; Rebecca Hein, Erin Friedberg, Megan Lynch, Cristin Oakley and Buffy Oakley-Smith, 1 nephew; Tim Oakley. Lastly, his beloved dogs; Rory, Corky and Maggie.
Visitation will be held at the Cochran Funeral 905 High Street, Hackettstown, NJ 07840 on Tuesday, April 1, 2014 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm. A funeral service will be held at 8 pm, Tuesday April 1, 2014 with the Rev. Joseph McCarthy officiating. Cremation will be private.
For those desiring donations may be made to: the family of Kenneth Oakley or the Diabetes Foundation, 45 Glen Cove Road, Greenvale, NY 11548, National Kidney Foundation of Ny and NJ 1250 Broadway, Suite 2001, NY, NY 10021, or the ASPCA 520 8th Ave., Seventh Floor, NY, NY 10018.
Condolences:
Judy Wade
#12
August 3rd, 2014 12:54 pm
God Speed my dear friend. Condolences to the family.
Paula Schwenke Henn
#11
May 12th, 2014 9:21 pm
Ryan, Kevin and Caitlin, I just learned of the sad news today. I wish I had known sooner. Your father was a wonderful, caring, cheerful and brave man. He was devoted to you. Know that he will always be nearby. Every time something reminds you of him, he is with you, listening and watching especially during strife and triumph in your lives. I have known him for the majority of his life and he will always hold a special place in my heart. He now rests in the arms of God, pain free and at peace.
ken oakley
#10
April 1st, 2014 7:07 pm
to kate,ryan,kevin ,caitlin,sorry for your loss.Your dad was a great person.glad to have met him and worked with him.
Tiffany Z
#9
March 31st, 2014 7:06 pm
Such a wonderful dad - keeping you all in my prayers
Jack and Cathy McKee
#8
March 31st, 2014 5:31 pm
Dear Cate and Family'
Cathy and I are greatly saddened to hear of the loss of your husband. Please accept our deepest sympathy.
Sister Joseph
#7
March 31st, 2014 2:25 pm
Dear Cate, Caitlyn, Ryan and Kevin,
I am so sorry for your loss, but heaven's gain! You now have your own personal saint in heaven. May God heal your hearts. That will be my special prayer for you.
Patti Becker Picciano
#6
March 30th, 2014 10:02 pm
My prayers are with you all. He is singing with the angels and in God's hands. Until you meet again. God Bless.
Bonnie and Bill Harrison
#5
March 30th, 2014 5:44 pm
Dear Kate, Kaitlyn, Ryan, and Kevin,
Our prayers are with you. Ken was certainly a man who knew how to do it his way. His infectious laugh will live in your hearts. Our loving thoughts are with all of you.
Beth, Bill, Megan & Paul, and Erin Friedberg
#4
March 30th, 2014 3:51 pm
We are so sorry about the loss of dear Uncle Ken. We know that his beloved children and Cate meant the world to him. We love you and we're praying for all of you at this difficult time.
Ellen Nerbak
#3
March 29th, 2014 2:40 pm
My deepest sympathy to you and your children.
Eileen & Leo Smith
#2
March 29th, 2014 7:36 am
Condolences on your loss.
Tale solace in the many wonderful memories and laughter you were able to share before the sickness took it's toll, Leo and I certainly will.
I know he took great pride in his family, and that pride is well deserved. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Kathleen Ball
#1
March 28th, 2014 2:50 pm
Dear Kate and Family, My thoughts are with you and your family at this time. Although I only met Ken once his kind personality shown through. Know now that the angels will guide him and take care of him. My prayers are with you and your family at this time.
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