Bernard Cho died peacefully at his home surrounded by his four daughters and wife on November 22, 2017 in Hackettstown, NJ at the age of 68.
Bernard is survived by his wife, Soon Ja Cho and four daughters, Carol Cho, Bonnie Cho and her husband Justin Heim, Julia Cho and Gina Cho, and sister, Anastasia Ribnicky and her husband Mike Ribnicky.
Bernard Cho was born as Ung Whi Cho on July 1, 1949 in Seoul, South Korea to mother Anna Lee and father Han Gyung Cho. He served in the Republic of Korea Marine Corps stationed in Vietnam from 1969 to 1971, and was discharged in 1972. He moved to the US in 1973 to chase the American Dream. While in the US, he responded to a penpal ad in a Korean newspaper and started writing letters to a wonderful and special woman for three years, before he went to South Korea and asked Soon Ja Cho to marry him in 1976. He brought back his lovely wife to the US where they started their family. Both Bernie and Soonie worked hard at various factories, even cleaning shopping malls, until they found the company that they would retire from: the M&M Mars candy factory, where they proudly worked until they both retired.
He loved being physically active, his favorite hobbies being tennis and long walks and hikes with his wife. His pride in working for M&M Mars and his love for America was never-ending, dressing head to toe in red, white and blue, and M&Ms clothing. He was an active church go-er and heartfelt volunteer. He spent his 15 years of retirement extremely passionate about giving back to his local community and to various national humanitarian organizations and causes from soup kitchens and the VA to the Salvation Army (where he looked forward every holiday season ringing the bell outside of supermarkets). He often shared with others his love for America and giving to charity so that he might inspire them to do the same. He was truly a man of service, loyalty, duty and honor, both to his country and his family.
A viewing is scheduled for Sunday, November 26 from 2-pm - 4pm and 7pm - 9pm at Cochran Funeral Home, 905 High Street, Hackettstown, NJ, 07840. The funeral is scheduled for Monday, November 27 at 11 am at St. Mark's Church at 59 Spring Lane, Long Valley, NJ 07853. Rev. Marcin Michaloski will officiate the ceremony. All are welcome to attend and celebrate Bernard's life. In lieu of flowers, please send donations to any of the following places in his honor:
I met Mr. Cho one time when I lived in Hackettstown outside the CVS Pharmacy. I was wearing my SHI badge. He noticed it and came up to me, excitedly and said 'SHI! My Bonnie works there! Do you know her?' Of course I have had the honor of working with her so I said yes. He went on to espouse how proud he was of his daughter. That is the kind of Mr. Cho was here on Earth and now in the hereafter. My most heartfelt condolences to his family.
Isabel D. Calderon
#11
November 28th, 2017 3:06 pm
Soon & Family,
Please accept my sincerest condolences on the passing of Bernie. He had such a great work ethic and smile. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Amy Solazzo
#10
November 27th, 2017 10:12 am
Carol and family, sending our love, thoughts and prayers from your New York Life family.
Charles and Sharon Sutton
#9
November 26th, 2017 7:30 pm
Dear Soon, So sorry to hear of Bernie's passing. May the Peace that comes from many memories of *love shared,comfort you now and forever:and May God's perpetual light shine & rest Bernie's soul in eternal Truth & Perfect Peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Charlie & Sharon
Gail Petteruti
#8
November 26th, 2017 5:49 pm
Soonja & family please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of your husband & father.
The Mars Retiree Club
Dennis & May Balcon
#7
November 26th, 2017 12:38 pm
Our deepest sympathies and prayers to Soon Ja and family for your loss. May Bernie rest in eternal peace in God
Fred Flores
#6
November 26th, 2017 11:47 am
My condolences to Soon and family. So sorry for your loss.
I got to know and work with Bernie and know he was a good man.
May he Rest In Peace and may the family find comfort in the
days to come.
Nancy Ginsberg
#5
November 26th, 2017 10:56 am
So very sorry for your loss Soon and daughters. Bernard was a very kind generous soul that always stood for what he believed in. He will surely be missed. Hugs and prayers to all of you.
Chris Black
#4
November 25th, 2017 9:12 pm
So saddened to hear of the news of Bernie's passing. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time.
Stella Becton
#3
November 25th, 2017 6:03 pm
Dear Soon & her family, all thoughts & prayers are with you at this very sad time. Bernie was a great guy & know he will be missed by many not just family but people he worked with, he was fun to be around too. So very, very sad for your loss. Love & many, many hugs, Stella & Den
Barbara and Danny Yankiv
#2
November 25th, 2017 4:52 pm
Dear Soon and family - we are so sorry for your loss. Bernard was such a nice and friendly man. He will be sadly missed by many. May God be with you at this time. We always felt welcome at your home.
ken Latella
#1
November 25th, 2017 3:16 pm
My deepest sympathy to Soon and her 4 daughters on the loss of a kind and
wonderful man. He will be sadly missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing him. RIP Bernie.
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